top of page
ARLANDRIA SPEAKS
_JPG.jpg)


Honorary Father's Day
There are a list of continuous reasons why my dad could never be forgotten and it’s not just because he was my dad. It’s that he was...
arlandriaspeaks
Jun 13, 20232 min read


The Blame Game
At some point we have to stop playing the blame game. Pointing fingers only works for so long. It’s easy to make excuses and explain to...
arlandriaspeaks
Mar 7, 20233 min read


Run, But It'll Catch Up to You
You ever know something is bad for you and keep doing it? Like you know that person is not good for you. You know that job isn’t good for...
arlandriaspeaks
Feb 28, 20232 min read


Pain is Temporary
Trying to avoid pain is like trying to avoid the inevitable. Pain demands to be felt. While you can run from it, it’s inescapable. But,...
arlandriaspeaks
Feb 7, 20232 min read


The Art of Breaking out of Co-Dependency
One of the hardest things for me is recognizing when to let go of someone. Ever since I was a teenager I had this horrible attachment to...
arlandriaspeaks
Jan 31, 20232 min read


The Healing in Spending Time Alone
I’ve always grown up with the saying, “You can never love anyone, if you don’t love yourself.” I never truly understood what they were...
arlandriaspeaks
Jan 24, 20234 min read


A Tribute to You
There are many things that can break a person. There are many things that have broken me. But, the one truly heartbreaking variable for...
arlandriaspeaks
Nov 29, 20225 min read


Upcoming News: My Poetry Collection and Perspective on Life
I’ve currently been working on a poetry book over the course of my entire teenage and young adult years. Ultimately, without realizing...
arlandriaspeaks
Nov 1, 20224 min read


The Dreaded Fear of Vulnerability
We are all guilty of withholding information at the cost of being vulnerable. People often do not like to reveal the truth about their...
arlandriaspeaks
Oct 25, 20223 min read


Five Things I had to Re-evaluate In Order to Grow
1. Procrastination What was I spending my time on? Most of the time I would know what I needed to do in order to become better, but felt...
arlandriaspeaks
Oct 18, 20225 min read
bottom of page